tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6689753396063801855.post1692575301795815144..comments2023-10-15T14:18:49.624+05:30Comments on Timeless Imagination: The Epic Battle of Career and Family!Sakshihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13560563322184558228noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6689753396063801855.post-55552741639680952452010-10-30T23:14:00.462+05:302010-10-30T23:14:00.462+05:30@Shalu
Yeah it is that hectic :)
@Bikram
Thank yo...@Shalu<br />Yeah it is that hectic :)<br /><br />@Bikram<br />Thank you, and you have raised a good point here abut what not can you achieve if you have a family that supports you :)Sakshihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13560563322184558228noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6689753396063801855.post-32331017279682452302010-10-30T21:54:41.792+05:302010-10-30T21:54:41.792+05:30hmmm well why wud you want others to dictate your ...hmmm well why wud you want others to dictate your way ... <br /><br />and yes i am sure you will be a GREAT lawyer all the best to you <br /><br />and really silly to say you cant have a career and family.. how rubbish is that .. You can actually do something great if family supports you... <br /><br />jsut got to find a balance thats all :) <br />yes if u have priorities right you can have a great family life and a career tooo <br /><br />All the best for everything <br /><br /><a href="http://www.mann-bikram.blogspot.com/" rel="nofollow">Bikram's Blog</a>Bikramhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17320753339263375295noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6689753396063801855.post-49293418393725536692010-10-28T17:56:06.980+05:302010-10-28T17:56:06.980+05:30GOD! Is it really that hard?GOD! Is it really that hard?Shalinihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15203300200722997722noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6689753396063801855.post-34931328226949308612010-10-27T23:41:53.099+05:302010-10-27T23:41:53.099+05:30@Uncle J
Lets just say that I am not talking about...@Uncle J<br />Lets just say that I am not talking about cynics here. You see uncle J, it is a very different ball game when you talk about a lawyer and when you talk about a doctor.<br />Being a doc is a noble profession, and being a lawyer is looked down upon. That is the way the society is.<br /><br />So when I talk about battle here, I am just focussing on my profession.<br /><br />But yes I do feel that it is very important to maintain that balance between being responsible with your family and at you workplace.Sakshihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13560563322184558228noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6689753396063801855.post-77857018565894664192010-10-27T23:38:40.763+05:302010-10-27T23:38:40.763+05:30@Chanz
Exactly my point. I don't understand, w...@Chanz<br />Exactly my point. I don't understand, why being social is a harmful for having a successful career?<br /><br />I mean, I thought, if you are anti-social, you are not promoted because of lack of interaction.<br /><br />Totally weirded out1Sakshihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13560563322184558228noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6689753396063801855.post-40722756157315746052010-10-27T23:36:44.360+05:302010-10-27T23:36:44.360+05:30@Big Omi
This is a trend that I have seen, that m...@Big Omi<br /><br />This is a trend that I have seen, that most of the people marry people in their own profession. I also understand why, so that the other person understands the work pressure that you might be in.<br /><br />But then, that does not mean that you cannot marry outside your profession and be happy.<br />My father is an Advocate and my mum a teacher. They both understand the work pressures.<br /><br />But being a lawyer yourself, I want to ask you- why is that a lawyer's average marriage age is 27+. There are some who get married after 30. Why do you think that is the trend.<br /><br />And not only females, there are loads of male lawyers too, who are not married.Sakshihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13560563322184558228noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6689753396063801855.post-35032996898206344112010-10-27T23:32:54.201+05:302010-10-27T23:32:54.201+05:30@WWW
I know ho it was not be able to be in the sam...@WWW<br />I know ho it was not be able to be in the same city. Hell they are in two different continents.<br /><br />I don't know how you would define a winner, but I certainly know that in the journey of life, I may have lot of money, even lot of fame, but if I do not have THE person to share it with, I am just going to be in a vaccum for the rest of my 'successful' career!Sakshihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13560563322184558228noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6689753396063801855.post-10234268764568346672010-10-27T23:29:46.840+05:302010-10-27T23:29:46.840+05:30@Shayon
why am I not surprised at your comment? Si...@Shayon<br />why am I not surprised at your comment? Silly!<br />I am sure that they have seen some of that fest! :P<br /><br />@Ani<br />Yes, it is hectic. And I am glad someone realised that we work really hard to demand the fee that we do!Sakshihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13560563322184558228noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6689753396063801855.post-67264425940886014822010-10-27T21:34:03.143+05:302010-10-27T21:34:03.143+05:30Sakshi,
Relax. Every professions has cynics. Don&...Sakshi,<br /><br />Relax. Every professions has cynics. Don't you think Doctors too have a very hectic schedule? Don't they have career and family life too? What about Civil Services lady officers? If one has head properly placed on shoulders one can be a good professionsl as well as a good family person too. It just needs proper balance. It goes for both males as well as females. I know in family a girl has to shoulder more responsibilities but it is not something impossible. Just remembe YOU CAN DO IT. Those who talk otherwise need to apply their mind with little more openly and logically. <br /><br />Take careJackhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15896075408610203350noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6689753396063801855.post-21624116503453349052010-10-27T11:37:13.285+05:302010-10-27T11:37:13.285+05:30Hahaha. Shayon, that was good.. And Sakshi, you ha...Hahaha. Shayon, that was good.. And Sakshi, you have a valid point. Its really difficult to make a choice between family and career. I question almost everybody around as to why can't I have a career along with a family. Why do I have to give up one of them. Infact, there are people who demotivate me saying that I am incapable of pursuing a career only bcoz I m quite a social person. And I don't like thatChandni (Chanz)https://www.blogger.com/profile/13739897867522404187noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6689753396063801855.post-2034496432897483952010-10-26T12:35:35.616+05:302010-10-26T12:35:35.616+05:30Dost itna load nai leneka... System crash ho jayeg...Dost itna load nai leneka... System crash ho jayega.. <br /><br />Me too a lawyer.. and preferable i wud marry a lawyer and i believe my other lawyer friends wud do the same.BIG Omihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05820375596803598371noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6689753396063801855.post-15126595888032753572010-10-25T15:58:15.139+05:302010-10-25T15:58:15.139+05:30Lol @Shayon :D
And, I think it is definitely poss...Lol @Shayon :D<br /><br />And, I think it is definitely possible to have both. Yes, if you have a family you won't be spending the most time and so may not be the 'top' lawyer (although, could be the best quality still). But I totally think you are on the right track with 'at what cost'. A good career is only useful so far as it contributes to our happiness. For some people, maybe career success is their absolute top priority. They are often the less emotional types who are not very invested in their relations with family or friends. But for most of us, happiness must also include family, friends, and realisation of some other goals (whether it be travel, learning in other fields etc). So, it is about trying to find the best balance overall. There is no set mix, it is about our personal preferences, and knowing what makes us happy. The ones who are 'highest' in one field may feel they are the best, but it is my belief that the 'winner' is the one who is happiest.<br /><br />And - three times a year! For so long! That is just horrrrrible. A few years are tolerable, but I can't imagine living like that for so long! I thought you guys did so well to tolerate it for so long, but that is just :OWicked Witch of the Westhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00003458713764591195noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6689753396063801855.post-72316281130897856742010-10-25T00:20:56.589+05:302010-10-25T00:20:56.589+05:30oh my god so hectic? :O no wonder lawyers charge s...oh my god so hectic? :O no wonder lawyers charge so much :P<br />May lord give you all powers to realise everything :Dani_asethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02508868042003107101noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6689753396063801855.post-4367502233175586522010-10-24T23:02:09.126+05:302010-10-24T23:02:09.126+05:30i am really surprised at one thing! Why the hell d...i am really surprised at one thing! Why the hell does the husband leave Germany and come to India on October. I mean, it's Oktoberfest time! And who, in his sane mind, leaves Oktoberfest to have sex with a 50 year old haggard half way around the globe? :-sAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05328373104801894198noreply@blogger.com