Often the silence is an end to a relationship. To most it may heal.
To some like me, it may kill.

Lessons in Shaadi (3)

The lies that you are made to see before getting married.
The specials in the first year of being married.
If you marry a guy who doesn't believe on all of that you end up being disappointed most of the times and if you marry in an over enthusiastic family, then you are left overwhelmed with many a celebrations.
It's a two edged sword and You end up wondering where is the enjoyment gone.

Lessons in Shaadi (2)

You are often faced with choices during your marriage that leave you with numbness. 
You end up wondering if the person who is telling you to pick and choose is the same person you chose to get married to. 
But then mostly, for the sake of peace around you make peace with your own self, sacrifice, compromise and often just give in.
And the choice trust me is never the better desert.. It's a choice that changes your life and your relationship with the people who you know. Changing the dynamics of your relationship and dynamics of who you always have been.