Well, things changed.. when my younger sister was born...times had changed... and till date I do not see any pressures on her... she like all of em say, has a mind of her own.
She is seven years younger to me.
Even though, I hate her guts.. and still do... I love her alot.
And off late I have been noticing a tendency of me being.. more like the parent to her... I have been pushing her to do things that I missed when I was her age...
I know what I am doing is not fair... and I need to pull my act together...
How can I live my good ol teenage through my sister....???
I think I can speak for both sides, as a son as well as a father. You are right. Parents do have expectations from the offsprings to do something they wanted to but missed. They also do pressurise them to excel in all fields. There are some exceptions too. Your trying to control younger sister is natural as it is just your maternal instict. You do not wish to see her hurt or a loser. In a way you may also be reliving your teenage in her.
Rather then pushing her to do things which u had missed, better just enjoy with her and bring out the kid in you :)
Secondly,be a friend rather then an elder sister :)
Hmmm, I agree with both of you...!!! But, then, there is the teenage temperament that I can't deal with...!!!
hey really nice blog..well you have life in front of you just live it the way you want..as they say you live only once!!
Thank you Rahul...!!! For both the compliment and the advice...
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