Sunday, October 11, 2009

When is Sakshi getting married?

This seems to be one question that is in air now days.
From the comments on my previous post to the comments on my facebook status, everybody is really eagerly awaiting my marriage.

And now, as confirmed from my source- My mother has already put the news in the market that I want to get my daughter married, and start looking for a match for her.
This is a conversation that my source had with me-
if there is even 1 percent of truth in the following conversation, then...

Source- Your mom, was asking me to find a match for you..
Me- WHAT!!!! Stop pulling my leg...
Source-Yeah, that is what your mom was talking to me about.
Me- Ohkay, and??
Source- Well, I told her, ' Ki aap, Sakshi toh pooch lo, aajkal ke bachche toh bahut smart hote hain'
Me- Ohkay and??
Source- So your mom is like- ' Haan maine usse pooch liya hai, aisi koi baat nahin hai. Agar aisi koi baat hoti toh humein pata hota, aur waise bhi iss umar mein aakar woh thodi na koi dhoondhegi'

Ofcourse there was more to the conversation which is not relevant here. But, I have a few doubts and here they are-
a) My parents and I have never had a 'guy' conversation EVER in my life. The only conversation that remotely is a 'guy' conversation about my life was with Arushi. And, I am sorry I do not consider that conversation between me and my parents.

b) Even though I am in love, WHO the hell says that you have to fall in love at a particular age... Some one help my mom.

Its not that I don't want to get married. I do. But, now. No ways. Kashvi and Moo have both asked me to take a chill pill. Because, 'Ladka koi, aise toh nahin mil jaata' I agree.

AND yes, I am going to tell about Shayon to my parents. With the kind of super speeded developments around me, it may just be soon.

But- after this comes my real question-
Why the hell, don't people mind their own business? That goes for my parents too... I mean- It is a fashion sorts, the day a girl enrolls herself in college, the so called society starts sending in the 'suitable marriage proposals' and then, there are the friends and the relatives, who constantly at any given occasion would ask- 'Aur Ji aapki beti ki shaadi ka kya hai? Kab socha hai... ' etc etc.
What happens to the other plans?
This is generalizing it-
What happens to MY Plans... the plan that I have set out for my life...
they are my parents. But, now, I am an adult. I am 23 years old, and I have a plan set out for my life. And, I really wish that my parents support that instead of hampering that by doing a nation wide search for a suitable match for me, MINUS my permission do so.
I have a career to think about, before even thing about marriage... This is so irksome.. I hate this.
And Oh yeah- I am NOT getting married to anyone but Shayon. Everyone in my family got to choose their life partners and I am going to choose mine.
(Yeah this is a sort of retaliation... )

This is not fair. And, I know life is NOT fair. But this like taking me totally unawares.

God help me.
On the other hand- My sister's upcoming birthday is making me tear my hair out.
And thanks for reading the rant post...


Anonymous said...

seriously babes, RELAX.

no one can make you do anything you don't want to, you know? so just smile and go with the flow. I would suggest bringing up Shayon though. :)

Anonymous said...

Hum Honge Kamyaab...
Hum Honge Kamyaab...

Hum Honge Kamyaab...Ek Din...

Man Mein Hai Vishvaas..
Poora Hai Vishwaas...

Hum Honge Kamyaab... Ek Din...


ShalinK said...

Relax babe !!!

do talk to your parents about it, cos thats the only way they would stop hunting !!

Dont get stressed out, think with a calm mind, things would fall into place eventually :)

Keep Smiling :)

Arooj said...

wish you a good luck.

Shalini said...

Chill yar Sakshi.
I know this is the kind of stuff people generally tend to get hyper about but your parents cant fix anything before asking you. They wont. So, till the time they dont bring up anything, you take your own sweet time to tell them about Shayon.

Jack said...


Kya itni bari ho gayi hai Sakshi? Relax. Concentrate on your studies and make your career. Also remember Parents will be parents, even you will come to that stage. If the news is out, then it is time to set the things straight. Any help? Please convey my wishes to your sister on her BD.

Take care

Sakshi said...

@ All,
Thanks guys...!!!
All of you have literally said the same thing.
And, with the positivity that you all are showing, I think I should also calm down a little and not freak about it.
Thank you thank you soo much.

@ Shayon,
Thanks a ton baby, that song was sure a moral booster.

ani_aset said...

omg you are only 23 for goodness sake abi se? tell aunty to relax for now yaar :)