Wednesday, July 28, 2010

Complicated questions on Love!

Love is the strangest of all emotions. And one gyaani that I know will always tell me that there is nothing in this world that can replace love except hate. I somehow, don't want to agree with it. I just don't understand, that how can you hate the very person that you love.
The very person who becomes your 'Jaan', your sweetheart, how can you just stop loving that person and then, start hating that person for all the same things that you were in love with about that person.
Aren't it those little little queer things that would set apart your relationship from that of the other couple that you see across the room?
And then all of a sudden you start feeling that those little things are nothing but a dampner to the entire relationship. Those things, that nature of your lover are always known to you.. then why are you with that person in the first place if you don't like those things. Is it really the hormones that make you love a person and then when the level comes down you are simply out of it?
What happens to forever & always?

Are all the love stories, the same- Ending in a note of deep sorrow?
If you can end, and move one, then that is not love. That is some sort of stupid infatuation, something like a drug high that wears off... where as- Even after ending it all, you end up thinking about that person, and you just feel like someone has put heavy lead on your heart, that there is always the urge and that person is the first one you want to talk to in the morning, and the last one each night.. you cannot really go out of love with that person?
Or can you?

I dunno, why the fuck am I writing this nonsense, Yes, I have lost my mind.


Wicked Witch of the West said...

I can understand how you can hate the one you love or loved...defensiveness or hurt can make it so, rather than any other change.

As to going 'out of love'...well, I am no expert at all in that area...I guess though, that there are degrees of love...and in a variety of ways.

Jack said...


Read 2 posts now. Take your time to visit, we can wait but please do not strain your eyes too much. This post is very genuine question and not a nonsense. One has to first understand what is love. And that is something which is still to be defined properly. However love can turn to hate under some very very rare circumstances.

Take care

Haddock said...

I remember some great professor saying that the opposite of love is not hate. Its "indifference"