Wednesday, February 24, 2010

I hate you...

I am not talking to you, you are very mean... extremely selfish.

I have been hearing these phrases so much in the last couple of weeks, that, all of a sudden I feel, that the change that I have been craving for is finally going to arrive.
I mean, I have always been- I still am to loads of extent- trying to keep everyone EVERYONE around me happy. I try to accommodate every little whim and fancy of every one around me.
And the day I don't, I am unliked by the people. Its like a status message on facebook, with the Unlike button. And for the uninitiated on FB the unlike/like button in the complex comment section thingy.

So, I feel that, it is progress as far as my life goes. I talk about taking life into my own hands, and really trying to make the most of what ever that I have. And, it makes perfect sense if I do what I like, and it makes me happy. What matters to the others, I don't give a damn.

That does not mean that I am going to do just about everything that a vamp does in our Hindi serials. It simply means, that people need to start accommodating more of me, my way. Than vise versa.
This little line by Dr. Suess sums it up well-
Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind.   

Do you guys remember that, I was talking about how R would have a heart attack seeing me in his class again, well, he was a little shocked... and he has a way with giving you looks... weird looks.
So, my friend lets call her N, she is very scared of R. (She is a 27 year old special educator, works with mentally challenged kids and R is 23) I am also intimidated by him, but, I can handle that much better than her.
Last friday on the second last day of the fest- She begged me to come for class (I had to miss dance because- HELLO- Last College FEST EVER) and I could not help laughing when I told her that I am not coming and she replied by saying-
I am not talking to you. R just gave me such a look... you just wait and watch, I am going to kill you when I see you next.

OMG- Had it come from anyone my age, I would have still taken it. From a 27 year old, it feels a little weird and funny... and hilarious. No, I have not gone back begging her to talk to me. I don't need to do that. Especially since I had a very genuine reason to not be at the class. 
Yeah, I have dance class today, I just hope she regained her senses back..!!! :P
Dear readers, my lovely blog friend, soul sister Kashvi officially turns two on the blog world. Please drop in your good wishes to her, so that she can continue to enthrall us with her great writing.


Ramit Grover said...

Wished Kashvi. Go see! :P

Ramit Grover said...

R is 23? Wow! He's a little kid ya!

Ramit Grover said...

So who exactly is R ?

Ramit Grover said...

So I'm not on Facebook, thanks for the detailed explanations about the Like and Unlike buttons.

As if they weren't self explanatory.

I'm bald, not blonde!


Ramit Grover said...

And this Suess fellow? He a friend of your's?

Chandni (Chanz) said...

I too am surprised at the 27 year old acting like err.. a teenager maybe..

Sakshi said...


she is really a kid. trust me...

ani_aset said...

i find that wow when is the fest..will youpost the dance video?